I love wearing high heels and wear make up all the time....does this makes...

[Melina]

...my boyfriend feel Im superficial? I love being sexy but sometimes I might think the clothes I wear might be inappropriate but I love being myself! Should I care what others think?

[Giggles]

I would stop worrying about what he thinks. As long as you are happy.

And forget the other noter. I've known lots of girls who were high maintenance but they were some of the most nicest girls I've ever met. Never judge a book by it's cover.

[wibblefran]

Life is too short to worry about what others think of how YOU look, if YOU want to look that way. If your man met you when you dressed that way then he has no room to judge; he may be worried if this is a *new thing*, in case he is scared you are trying to attract others, but he should be able to sit you down and tell you stuff!
Be yourself and enjoy it, although remember to tone down the sexiness when appropriate - lunch with his parents etc ;P
And also be clear that you dress this way because YOU WANT TO and not because you are trying to hide something ot there is some underlying cause which is impacting on your self-respect and linking it to sexiness. If its just a personal choice: GO FOR IT

[Keyshia P]

I'm the same way.. Remember theres a limit. Don't let it define you and you'll be okay.